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n’Bliss Technique’nThe 10 Day ProgramnnA Meditative Technique To Help You Recover Sexual Ecstasy -nYour Primodial Legacy As A Human’nnOur 10 Day Program is free with thenBliss Techniquenn”Sex wasn’t God’s big mistake.nJudging against sex was humanity’s biggest mistake.nPleasure is an divine as any cathedral, any temple”*nnDr. Deepak Chopra,nFreedom, Grace and Powernn”If you were free of obstructions – if your mind were clear,nyour heart open and your body free of tensionnyou’d experience the energy as annindescribable  pleasure – better than sex.’ *nGet John Ryan – The Bliss Technique 10 Day Program downloadnDan Milliman,nThe Way of the WarriornnOver a hundred years ago, the great Russian writer Leo Tolstoy wrote  an extraordinary thing,’nnHe wrote:nn”Man survives earthquakes, epidemics,the horrors of disease, and all the agonies of the soul, but for all time his tormenting tragedy has been, is, and will be the tragedy of the bedroom”nnHe was right.nnYet, what we are beginning to understand is that, most of us are  in fact  …………….nn’Dissociated from Sex, one of the greatest spiritual experiences of a biological being’.nnWe  feel  very little or nothing.nnWe just feel very little real sensation in our bodies, almost dead, numb – frozen.nnDuring sexual intercourse, most of us  feel only a tiny, tiny tingle of what we should be experiencing.nnWhy is this?nnBecause…..nnWe are all in our heads.nnLooking at what is happening, not FEELING it.nnNone of us are fully present, home in our bodies.nnNone of us fully inhabit every cell of our bodies.nnThe rest of our body feels  cut off from what is happening.nnBlocked.nnFrozen.nnLike concrete.nnWe’re ‘dead’ with fear, with self-consciousness.nnSelf-consciousnessnn’The male’s greatest fear is failure, while thenfemales is of not being loved’.nIrma KurtznnIn a poll this year in the New York Times, one in three men admitted that they actively avoided sex and  refused to sleep with prospective partners for fear of failure.nnAnd in a similar poll among 15,000 women,  – the simple matter of self-consciousness inhibited orgasm in over 75%  of the women interviewed!nnThis letter from a woman is typical of this problem.nnMy acute self-consciousness completely inhibits me from completely letting go……and giving myself over to the pleasure I could be feeling…..nnI’m worried about how breast and stomach are looking …..and thus distracted from any of the delicious sensations I could be experiencing.nnI know we are more critical of their bodies than men are….Yet it’s true: What turns men on is seeing us really excited and lost in pleasure.nnBut I’m cut off from this kind of abandon because I’m just so absorbed with worrying about how I look, I’ve lose  the ability to know and concentrate on how I feel.nnToday, we are SO preoccupied with our own chronic self -consciousness, that we feel nothing.nn”Where’s my life gone?”nnThat’s why we tend to  feel ‘life is passing us by’.nnAs one writer once said: “The Divine means nothing unless you can feel it in your body.nnLikewise, with sex.nnIt means nothing unless you can feel it bursting as joy and orgasm in every cell of your body.nnBut we won’t let or ALLOW ourselves to do that.nnAnd, so we deny ourselves what deep down, everyonencraves :nn‘That pleasure in which your entire being vibrates and pulsates undividedly, in harmony with itself and with another human being’.nnEva PierrakosnnClick here to start practicing the Bliss Technique Right AwaynnDeep down, that’s it!nnIsn’t it?nnWe want a REAL whole-body-mind connection with another person.nnIn our lives now.nnWe WANT Freedom fromnour excessive self-consciousness.nnHow many of us have not felt the desire, as the great Irish poet, Brendan Kennelly once wrote to ……nn” ‘drive’ out the demons of embarrassment and inhibition and some, at least of the more crippling forms of shyness and sensitivity.”nnSo that….. we can feel a real whole bodily feeling of unity with another human being.nnUnity consciousness itself.nnAs  the great philosopher Ken Wilber concludes, after a lifetime of reflection:nn‘All our various desires, wants, intentions and wishes are ultimately ‘substitute gratifications’ for unity consciousness.”nnBut today, most of us  are so……nn’Constricted’nn’Anxious’nnAnd ‘tense’…….nn….that we can only let in and experience a tiny trickle of the  energy flow in our bodies when we want to make love.nnThus, when we want to take a relationship further with a partner, we all feel the strong desire to avoid the shame, the humiliation and mortification if sex is a failure.nnBut here is the dilemma we all face: Sex can be pure ecstasy between you and a partner and  our cells literally YEARN for it – or it can be a total disaster.nnAnd so, for most of us,  we let FEAR overrule over DESIRE for sexual enjoyment, for sexual union- and we miss out on or postpone  what we really want.nnAnd afterwards, we end up alone with ourselves feeling……. EMPTY…..and disappointed.nnYet, the problem is not you.nnOr your partner.nnOr your desire for sexual union ……nn…..But your fear and excessive self-consciousness.nnmarilyn-monroe.jpgnMarilyn Monroe, sex, pleasure and the BlissnTechnique.nnMarilyn Monroe And PleasurennIn tapes made for her psychiatrist Dr Ralph Greenson, Marilyn Monroe gives us all an unique insight into the very personal nature of the ideas that we are talking about here.nnHere are her words and beliefs about pleasure, and how it affected her ability to experience real pleasure in her life.nn”What I told you when I first became your patient is true. I had never had an orgasm. I well remember you said an orgasm happens in the mind, not the genitals.nnYou said there was an obstacle in my mind that prevented me from having an orgasm; I felt  that I did not deserve to have the greatest pleasure there is; that it had something to do with something sexual that was very wrong, but my pleasure from getting pleasure from it caused my guilt.nnThat it was buried in my subconscious. Through analysis we would bring it to my conscious mind where we could get to the guilt and free me to be orgasmic.nnWell, we sure worked it and it got nowhere. I’d go home and cry and vomit from the frustration. Then you said for the orgasm problem we would try a different approach.nnThat you would tell me how to stimulate myself, that when I did exactly what you told me to do I would have an orgasm and that after I did it to myself and felt what it was, I would have orgasms with lovers.nn(As In the Bliss Technique – you must learn to feel it in yourself first, in your own body first, then with others)nnWhat a difference a word makes. You said I would, not I could.nnBless you doctor. What you say is gospel to me. By now I’ve had lots of orgasms. Not only one, but two and three with a man who takes his time.nnI never cried as hard as I did after my first orgasm. It was because of the years I had never had an orgasm. What wasted years. How can I describe to you, a man, what an orgasm feels like to a woman. I’ll try.nnThink of a light fixture with a rheostat control. As you slowly turn it on, the bulb begins to get bright, and then brighter and brighter and finally in a blinding flash is fully lit. As you turn it off it gradually becomes dimmer and at last goes out.nnSpeaking of Oscars, I would win overwhelmingly if the Academy gave Oscars for faking orgasms. I have done some of my best acting convincing my partners I was in the throes of ecstasy”.nnFor us all, it is this idea- THIS belief that, as we ARE now, “ that we do not deserve to have the greatest pleasure there is’ that stops us from experiencing this health-giving energy in our body.nnAnd, as we have seen, this belief can affect us all from a Hollywood sex goddesses to the ordinary person on the street.nnFrom today, we need to start to think outside the limits of our past experience.nnTo gradually allow yourself to play around with this new possibility; that pleasure is not bad or wrong.nnAnd it is not limited or scarce.nnAnd as Osho once wrote, misery is the key business of all the organized religions.nnHe wrote:nn“If dropping the misery is as easy as I say, then all these fake religions lose their business. It is a question of their business. Blissfulness has to be made so difficult – almost impossible- that people can only hope for it in some future life, after long arduous journeys.”nnBut pleasure is simply the true nature of the energy of life itself- an energy that is infinite.nnAn energy that we have blocked from our bodies by the harsh, frozen nature of all our old beliefs.nnWhen you practice the Bliss Technique to-night, begin to breath deeply now and to relax, REALLY RELAX your body more and more.nnLet all the centuries of limitation and fear, that are deposited in the cellular memory of your body be released.nnA Thought Experiment!nnFor a moment, put any morals you may have aside and do this ‘Thought experiment’ with me.nnI want you to imagine this beautiful escort is available to you right now.nnAnd for women, imagine now the man of your desires.nnA man of deadly charm. See him clearly.nnYou simply have to pick up the phone ….and she/he  is yours.nnposed by modelnnPlay along with me here and…really enjoy this woman’s beauty now. Or the man’s charm.nnShe’s yours.nnAll yours.nnNow.nnOne call.nnAnd she is in your room.nnShe wants you to make love to her.nnTo rise to the occasion.nnTo satisfy her…….nnShe wants to give herself totally to you – because you are thenclient .nn”Well, Not NOW, Maybe, Next Time?”nnYet, why the hesitation?nnWhy the reluctance to ring and face her? Him?nnIf you’re feeling hesitant, right now, don’t feel too bad.nnYou are not alone.nnIn 2003, as part of a TV documentary in Holland, a group of 20 men were offered all the pleasures and services of a similar group of beautiful women – and all turned it down….nnYes, EVERYONE of them.nnWhy?nnWe both know.nnFear.nnThe same fear, to a greater or lesser extent that every man  feels when he/she has to perform.nnThe same fear every woman feels as she is about to  reveal and open herself to her man.nnAll Pleasure- Blocked!nnWe are all capable of experiencing infinite pleasure…….nnBut we are so concerned, so worried, so anxious about what ‘OTHER PEOPLE ‘ think of ‘us’ that we freeze……nnLike ICE.nnAnd this fear causes all the cells of our bodies…….nnTo constrict,nnTo narrow,nnTo tighten,nnTo contractnnAnd to compress…….nnAnd totally block out and hinder the flow of blood and energy throughout our bodies.nnAnd the flow of blood and energy becomes a mere trickle…..nnSo we can’t arouse an erection or feel any sensations at all in our ‘deaden’ body.nnWe make love in our heads, not in our bodies, and feel little.nnThe Ecstasy Of A Deep Tissue MassagennNow, here’s another experiment you can do.nnTomorrow, book yourself a deep tissue massage or Thai massage.nnWhen you arrive, remove your clothing, lie down and try to surrender yourself fully to the massage.nnAnd see and monitor closely how you feel….nn”Ecstasy”nnNow: A proper massage should be ecstatic.nnYour whole body should pulsate, tingle with pleasure.nnDown to your fingertips!nnStreams of pleasure should wash over you- healing, renewing and regenerating you.nnYour bloodstream should be saturated with a cascade of the body’s natural happy hormones -endorphins.nnBut…..nnThe truth is most of us will feel very little of this.nnWhy?nnAgain, deep down, we will be too tense.nnToo self-focused.nnToo SELF-CONSCIOUSNESS.nnWe will be too-uptight to fully relax and really surrender to each moment of the massage.nnSo this tension, this ‘trying’ will block,  squeeze, and restrict the energy in our body and……..nnAgain, we feel very little.nnAnd when that happens……. we might blame the masseuse or think we haven’t found the right kind of massage that suits us yet.nnBut the fact remains: We FEEL little or nothing……..nnLook Within!nnThat’s why, as we mentioned  we all feel life is passing us by.nnOr hasn’t started yet.nnYou see, we’re here to experience.nnTo experience the indescribable nature and pleasure of the ENERGY of life in our bodies now.nnWe all think it’s all the ‘exotic’ holidays we have missed out on that make us feel life has left us behind.nnOr all the glamorous parties we were never invited to.nnOr the far-flung ‘adventures’ that never happened.nnBut it is not true.nnSTRIP everything away and look deeper – and you’ll see a different story.nnIn truth, what we all really want to experience (and think we have missed) is the pleasure of this life force coursing through every cell of our bodies in absolute union with another person. Unity consciousnessnnMost of us believe we can only experience this force through sexual orgasm, which we can  – but the truth is, we must first experience and enjoy it in our own bodies first.nnThis is the mistake we have made.nnOnly then we can FULLY  enjoy and access it  with others.nnOtherwise, nothing or little will happen.nnYou won’t feel anything, if first you can’t feel it in yourself.nnIf you can’t ‘get it on with yourself’ – if you can’t totally relax and feel the incredible pleasure of the sexual energy streaming through your body when you are relaxed and on your own, what chance is there you will feel it when you are tense, anxious and self-conscious with others?nnLook Within!nnAll the time the problem was within us.nnNot the other personnnAll our lives, we have been….nnBlockingnnFreezingnnAnd restricting ourselves so TIGHTLY….. that, we never felt anything.nnNow is the time……by relaxing into our own being …..to start to let go.nnTo unblock ourselves.nnTo unfreeze ourselves.nnFirst, when are on our own.nnAnd then, when we are relaxed and intimate with a person we like.nnTo do this, we must never forget that the energy, the pleasure is within us.nnDeeksha Kiara Windrider expresses it beautifully:nn‘We are joy-filled beings all the way to the core.nnYou know, when you really look at the bio-chemistry, you will see that the human organism is designed for the ongoing experience of joy, pleasure, bliss.nnWhat’s an endorphin? What are the skin and the senses?  A fragrant, yellow-bursting flower?nnThere’s no escaping it: We are set up for bliss. But look at us. We’ve missed; we’ve totally missed the mark’.nnWe have missed the mark! because we have forgotten that we are responsible for how much of this energy we will let ourselves experience.nnThe other person can help us to access this energy in ourselves, but if we can’t relax and let go enough, we will still feel nothing, no matter how beautiful or alluring the other person is.nnClick here to start practicing the Bliss Technique Right AwaynnChris Griscom  emphasizes this point again and again in her extraordinary book,  ‘Ecstasy is a new frequency’:nnShe writes:nn”There is nobody out there influencing the body but you.nnUntil you can own your body, forget what anybody else is going to do for you…..”nn”In the past, we thought, “Well, my problem is this wife that I have been with for 20 years. I’m bored.” We thought we could find the stimulus in a new being. It’s not there. We found that out…….”nn”You can make love to a different person every day, and you will still feel unfulfilled, and you will not be orgasmic…….”nn”The stimulus is not out there in the other person, and it doesn’t matter how beautiful the body, or how well you do the technique. That’s irrelevant.nnThe energy, as it moves is moving in you……”nnThis is the key.nnWe have to learn how to feel this extraordinary, exquisite ENERGY  in our OWN bodies first when we are on our own….. without the pressure, tension, and self-consciousness of others present.nnLet’s be honest again.nnIf we can’t feel it coursing through our bodies when we are relaxed and on our own, what chance is there we will  feel this  ENERGY  when we are present and self-conscious with others?nnThe Bliss Technique is only a simple tool to ALLOW us to experience (not talk about or compare theories about) BUT TO actually  EXPERIENCE that energy, that force NOW…….in our own bodies firstnnThat is why we turn to this simple Bliss Technique.nnIt is only a technique or tool to help us to CLEAR our system of the blockages that prevent us from EXPERIENCING, in our everyday life, our underlying nature of bliss.nnSo when you practice the Bliss Technique, these states of bliss, joy and peace are very real states of being.nnNot imaginary or fantasy.nnThey are real states, each of which has a very specific and observable effect on your physiology and brain wave coherence.nnAs you practice, your body would begin to release higher levels of endorphins.nnEndorphin are the natural hormone secreted by the pituitary gland that science has now linked to a person’s pleasure level and to the experience of unconditional joy.nnThe Bliss Technique is a simple technique that cause your body to naturally and organically produce unlimited amounts of THESE natural feel-good chemicals, endorphins.nnFirst in you  – and then in your partner, whose body will start to align with yours and begin producing the chemical onrush!nnClick here to start practicing the Bliss Technique Right AwaynnSo, life need not pass us by.nnIt is always within grasp. Even right NOW.nnThis moment, you have the EXACT SAME biological and neurological circuitry as any other human being who is capable of experiencing all the ecstatic frequencies of this energy, from the highest to the lowest – this very moment.nnIt is available to you right now.nnThe truth is: Our nervous systems have been set up for unlimitedness.nnExperience The Differences For Yourself In 10 DaysnnThe 10 Day Program -FREE with the Bliss TechniquennAfter you have mastered the basic techniques of this meditative practice and can feel this extraordinary, healing ENERGY streaming through your OWN body  when you are on our own………nnI want you to move on………and learn how you can experience this orgasmic energy when you are with another person so that both of you can feel this orgasmic energy streaming through your bodies together as one.nnIn fact, this is your greatest gift to your partner.nnTry it out for 10 days after you have mastered the main Bliss Technique !nnEach day, read and reflect on one module, listen to my tape, guding you into this state and practice  and then…..nnJust practice.nnPractice a little bit every day.nnPut aside all expectations or goals.nnDon’t try or want  to achieve any specific effects….just allow yourself to experience what ever happens.nnDay 1    Module 1nnIn Day 1, we’ll explore the ultimate intimacy we all want.  Sex is the ultimate intimacy between two people. It was designed to be the greatest spiritual experience of a biological being.nPeople who do not have orgasms cannot really relax, and if you cannot relax, then you are missing out on the many multisensory pleasures of life. No one owes you an orgasm if you have been unable to discover for yourself your body’s own orgasmic pleasure.nnDay 2     Module 2nnWhen we are about to enter an intimate sexual situation, most of us can feel a nervous fear and anxiety gradually seep into our bodies.nnIt is a jittery, fidgety, stomach-tingling, anxious nervousness that begins to restrict, narrow, and freeze your body so that only a tiny trickle of blood -the conduit of your life-force and vitality can flow freely to your erotic organs.nnSo, in this situation you will experience a weak or even no erection at all.nnOr, as a woman, you will feel little or nothing. No tingles. No sensations. No contractions. Your nerve circuitry will feel dead. Lifeless.nnWhen we are sexually excited and totally relaxed, our body produces a whole cascade of delicious hormones, especially oxytocin – ‘tiny living beings of pleasure’ – that stream into our bloodstream to be distributed to every part of our body.nnBut when we are in a state of fear and tension, everything is blocked and restricted so we feel little or none of the flow of these ecstatic energies.nnTo-day, we’ll learn how to unblock the feards that stop us from feeling these energies..nnDay 3        Module 3nnToday you’ll  learn why ecstasy is a new frequency, the vibration of a new frequency.  We’ll learn that 0ur sexual energy is usually the only place in our lives where we come anywhere close to ecstasy or rapture because we feel that pulsation, that electromagnetic charge that is part of our own creation. It is the essence of our being.nnDay 4             Module 4nnToday, you’ll  remove and relax away the blockages, so that the energy and the blood will  flow again and burst forth in a huge explosion of power and feeling.nIn the Bliss Technique, everything we have done so far has been focused on removing, and on releasing this fear and  chronic tension from your body……nRemember, the problem is not in your body. If you can achieve an erection, or, as a woman, self-pleasure yourself to noticeable heights of pleasure and sensation – the problem is not physiological.nYour body is not the problem, just this chronic tension and fear that closes your body so you feel nothing.nnIn fact, the problem is even more specific: you are not fully present IN YOUR body. You do not live in the present moment.nnDay 5         Module 5nnToday, we’ll practice a simpe  secret that will release all your  latent sexual energies. The secret lies in remembering how you really  felt when you stopped trying to feel the bliss energy?  When you stopped wanting to feel CERTAIN things and not others……when you just  allowed the life-force in your body to respond without judgment or censure?   Remember how much more open and relaxed you felt?nnThis is the key to letting this orgasmic energy flow, not different sexual positions or popping pills.nnToday, we’ll also learn there is nothing wrong with using different positions, but if there is no ecstatic, red-hot ENERGY and FEELING behind your action, using all these different positions will still leave you feeling equally cold and empty.nnReal sex is all FEELING.  All about energy. It’s all about getting out of your mind, out of your head and into the ENERGY.nnDay 6            Module 6nnToday, you’re going to  ALLOW yourself to FEEL an ABUNDANCE of this marvellous, orgasmic energy surging through you so that you can effortlessly lift up your partner’s body to this same ecstatic sexual frequency. To do this you need fully present. FULLY conscious with another person.  You’ll need to learn how to achieve this closeness, this  intimacy, this connection.nnIf you can  achieve no deep connection, no deep feeling will be involved – and so your body won’t be triggered into producing an abundance of glorious, delicious hormones, especially oxytocin, to saturate your bloodstream.nnDo you know why a shared meal is a popular starting point for sex in human beings? Scientists have discovered that oxytocin, the hormone of coupling and togetherness flows almost as easily during an enjoyable meal as during sex and subsequent orgasmnnAt the end of the day, it’s all boils down to one thing: If you can’t let go enough, relax enough and let yourself be fully present, then you won’t feel anything. Nor will your partner.nnDay 7           Module 7nnToday, we’ll show you how to put  Barry Long’s wisdom  into practice when he said: “You don’t have to worry about ‘feeling like making love’. That’s an emotional distraction. The bodies love to make love. The part of you that feels like it or doesn’t feellike it is the problem, the emotional monitor, the self that gets in the way. Leave it to the bodies and they will make love. Stay out of it as much as you can.nnToday, I’ll ask you to remember a vital truth: When your body is relaxed, open and at ease, it knows how to make love – perfectly! It knows  PERFECTLY how to produce an abundance of sexually ecstatic, bliss hormones, to saturate your body…….if you will just get out of the way and let it…..It can do all those things with perfect, intelligent precision…… it also knows how to make love perfectly…if you can learn how to get out of its way!nnDay 8           Module 8nnToday, I’ll going to ask you to simply focus on staying fully present in your body and watch what happens. A gentle, soft choice-less watching. I’ll ask you not to  put ANY limits on this pleasure as it rises in you. I want to realize that the  more you can hold this gentle, open attitude…as you practice, the more of this energy you will allow in and experience. The key is to  drop all mental limits you might have as to what is possible to experience.nnThe energy is limitless – so will be YOUR experience.nn’A man cannot give you an orgasm. A man cannot give you something that is already yours. Women have assumed for too long that men are naturally-born ‘sexperts’. If you have not done so, now is time for you to claim rightful ownership of your sexuality’nnDay 9             Module 9nnToday’s Module will introduce you  to the ‘ the no-orgasm Rule!  The famous research team, Masters and Johnson have a simple ‘no orgasm rule ‘ in their therapeutic work for couples who want to experience more pleasure in their love-making. The essence of their technique as employed at the Reproductive Biology Research Foundation in St Louis is that each couple is instructed to go to bed, attempt to enjoy each other, but strictly avoid any effort towards orgasm or any position that might lead to it.  They are to have no end-goal in mind, nothing they are aiming for – just to enjoy and appreciate each sensationnas it arises.nnAnd the results are astounding. Over 70% of all couples, where one or both have not had an orgasm in years- often achieve climax within two weeks after starting the program. The explanation, according to Dr. Masters is that anxiety about orgasm is the principle cause of failure and once the anxiety is removed, the natural happens by itself, spontaneously!nnDay 10     Module 10nnToday, I will ask you to perform this experiment: In your mind  pretend you are having sex but imagine it is a total failure! Yes, a complete disaster! Really do everything you can to make sure that nothing ‘rises’ to the occasion! Demand, literally command your penis not to get involved. To be totally unresponsive. To remain as soft as a feather, no matter what! As a woman, command your body to be totally unresponsive. Immune to any feeling. To let nothing cause the slightest pleasant sensation in you.  Ban any energetic sensations or contractions that may start to tingle in one sensual connection in any part of your body. Try to make it a ‘total failure’. Even Celebrate everything going wrong.  We’ll realize the the Secret to Success – is to love failure!  It sounds mad, but if you can’t learn to love failure, you’ll never succeed at anything.nWe will never truly enjoy sex as long as we continue to take ourselves and sex SO seriously.nnAs we have seen, our entire lack of enjoyment from sex comes from our acute self-consciousness. Our ultra-sensitive concern with WHAT other people might think of us. But we must always remember that we are not ALONE: Virtually everybody suffers from the same fear.nnToday, I’ll also ask you to  change your old view of sex. It has nothing to do with ‘performing’. It’s all about exchanging subtle, delicious, joyous energies with each other. Sex is…… just two people relaxing, letting go and melding into each other for a moment of time, for a brief respite from the energy of the daily world.nnFree With The Bliss ProgramnnFind out how you can enjoy losing 5-10 Pounds Of Stubborn Fat using  The Bliss Technique !nnMost people find it impossible to lose weight -and thus further avoid Sex…….nn…….because we feel we need to  ‘stuff’ ourselves with ‘pleasurable’ Junk  food.nnWe need to do this because our body has been starved of it’s own NATURAL  SOURCE of pleasure – so it looks to these substitutes to make up for the lack.nnAll the details are in our  new e-book,’How To Quickly Lose Those 5-10 Pounds Using The Bliss Technique’, which is free with our course.nnHow To Test The Bliss Technique?nnAfter you have mastered the Bliss Technique, I want you to test it.nnTo prove to yourself that it makes a real difference to your life.nnWhen you are with your partner or meet a new partner, MARVEL at how he or she feels as their bodies become entrained with yours.nnSimply be aware of how confident you feel as you help your partner FEEL THE SAME ORGASMIC ENERGY STREAMING THROUGH YOUR BODIES AS ONE.nnAs you bring them to ecstasy.nnAs you bring them to their core JoynnYour greatest gift to another person.nnThen you’ll feel that…nn‘That ultimate pleasure in which your entire being vibrates and pulsates undividedly, in harmony with itself and with another human being’.nnEva PierrakosnnNo words will be needed then.nnNo explanations.nnYou will feel it.nnKnow it.nnYou’ll experience what  Erica Jong experienced and wrote about in her  autobiography, Fear of Fifty:nn”I saw clearly  what the life of a man and woman was meant to be like, two halves fitting into each other, out of time, for eternity.nnI knew that people took drugs trying to stimulate this, pursued money and power for this, tried to destroy it in others  when they could not have it for themselves. It was a very simple gift – but no less elusive for it’s simplicity – and most people had never known it.nAll their thrashing around was in it’s pursuit.”nnOr as the great philosopher Schopenhauer  discovered when he wrote  in the privacy of his unpublished notebooks:nn“If I’m asked where the most intimate knowledge of that inner essence of the world, of that thing in itself which I have called the will to live, is to be found, or where the essence enters most clearly into our consciousness, or where it achieves the purest revelation of itself, then I must point to ecstasy in the act of copulation. That is it! That is the true essence and core of all things, the aim and purpose of all existence.nnOr as  Chris Griscom, asks us to REMEMBER  when she writes:n“This is why ecstasy is a new frequency, the vibration of a new frequency.nnOur sexual energy is usually the only place in our lives where we come anywhere close to ecstasy or rapture because we feel that pulsation, that electromagnetic charge that is part of our own creation. It is the essence of our being.”nnOur lives will really begin when we realize  as true what the   Kama Sutra said many  centuries ago,nn”All yearning, all striving, all the things thatnwe do  with our lives have ecstatic love asnthe ultimate goal”nnGet John Ryan – The Bliss Technique 10 Day Program download